Dating an attractive guy
“Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.” According to new research, Rochkind’s ideas about sexy bikini babes are correct.
A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships.
In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages.
In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of 238 men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago.
“But after a date or two, they’ll have problems hanging out with you and then will ghost.” Last year, she stopped putting looks at the top of her dating criteria on Bumble, instead opting for guys who traveled a lot and were “make the most out of their lives” types.
In August 2016, she met Christopher Argese, a 27-year-old security technician.
“I gave him my card and said I have the perfect girl for him,” recalls Janis, founder of Serious Matchmaking, based in Midtown.
Now, she’s more interested in “superballer” men with high-paying careers.“When men get to a certain age, they realize that it’s important to meet a life partner that they connect with,” she says.“Looks fade.” Some great-looking people say they’re given a bad rap unfairly.“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.
“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says.
After dating an athletic banker with model good looks for two years, Sonali Chitre, 34, has sworn off hotties.